Christmas in the Intensive Care Unit

James Hospitalization, Life Lessons, Living Wills

Leaving Hawaii is hard, but Christmas in the Intensive Care Unit is worse. People often tell me how lucky I am to live in Hawaii. When they say this I usually suspect that they have a picture in their minds of soft sandy beaches, palm trees and mai tai cocktails. The truth for me is something quite different. My family …

What am I dying of Is Not The question to Ask

James Hospitalization, Life Lessons, Living Wills

Congratulations on finding this website!  What you are about to discover will change your life and your death. This unique approach to end of life planning was born on December 30th 2016, the day my sister died. Jennifer was only 50 years old when she passed.  Like others at that age, she didn’t think much about dying, nor did she plan for it.  On the other …